The Secret

Do you want to know a secret?

Do you want to discover how to trade your irritability for peace, your anxiety for trust, your frustration at being constrained to release and freedom? I should imagine that most people would cautiously and maybe somewhat sceptically say, yes to those questions. Do you want to find a way to remain steadfast? A word that is not used so often now, maybe we equate it with steady, and think ‘boring’ – but it is a place of strength, of having an inner peace, security and contentment, regardless of what is happening in your situation and circumstances around you.

I have always loved the verse of scripture which talks about having ‘learned the secret of being content’.

“I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:12-13

First the writer, the apostle Paul, acknowledges that he has experienced times of plenty and times of need, but he has learned the secret of being content regardless of his external circumstances.

Now a secret is something that is shared through intimacy – you whisper a secret, you need to get close to the person that you are sharing it with, to speak quietly in their ear. They need to be paying attention and listening carefully. A secret is not shouted out for all to hear, it is a shared confidence – and the person receiving that confidence feels privileged, that they have been trusted with that information.

The secret that Paul has learnt is that he is not controlled by external circumstances – they are, after all, beyond our control. He has learnt that God will provide him with all that he needs, with the strength for that day.

It is interesting that he states, firstly, that he has learnt the secret of contentment in times of plenty, of abundance – are you thinking surely that would be easy? I know from my own experience, however, how easy it is when things are going well to start to assume that we have control of the situation. Pride can creep in, and we can start to think we are doing fine in our own strength and then start to neglect our relationship with God.

But how quickly things can change, sometimes almost overnight, this year, more than any, is an example of how fragile life is apart from God.

And then Paul goes on to say that he has learnt the secret of contentment in times of hardship – those times of need when we are struggling to cope with life’s problems and difficulties. For some that is hard to understand, but often the trials of life draw us to God, we cling to him and depend on his every word. And that is part of the answer….

To learn the secret of contentment, we need to make space and take time for our relationship with God. Sometimes we are gifted that space and time, but often we have to stretch ourselves, we have to be creative to make that space and give up that time – but if we are seeking change we need to make room for God to move! Contentment is developed through intimacy with God, it is there that he teaches us what is in our hearts, gently revealing to us what he is refining, what needs bringing to the surface to be dealt with. It is in that intimacy that God whispers to our spirit, reminding us of his promises, of his love and faithfulness. We can treasure those words and hold them close, receiving strength for the day. It is as we learn to trust in him, to release and let go of our control, to give all our life into God’s hands that he begins to release us from those negative emotions that control us! Give to God and he always multiplies back a blessing!

In this season, I am learning the secret of contentment, making space, and taking time to hear God’s whisper to my spirit….do you want to learn to?

7 thoughts on “The Secret

  1. I do love the collision of truth in both of these verses. The “all things” God offers strength for is that pesky problem of contentment, and I DO need all the strength he provides to do that and to do it well.

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  2. Oh Sharon … “steadfast” might not be a trendy word but that is exactly what I want to be! It’s so true that all we need is “strength for the day” … not tomorrow, or next month. I’m trying to act like I believe this, though I don’t always succeed. And I love the thought in your picture … “your strength will equal your days.” I don’t think I’ve ever noticed that scripture before, at least not that I remember!

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    1. So agree, steadfast in mind, there isn’t another word that quite conveys the same meaning. And yes that scripture from Deuteronomy is a new one for me too but I do love it! Thank you

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  3. I also love those words from Philippians. Learning the secret of being content in all situations is knowing God. I am blessed that God is my Lord and Savior and in Him, I find contentment and perfect peace.

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